Mirror Work: 21 Days to Heal Your Life I Can Do It 2019 Calendar: 365 Daily Affirmations
It is often said that better alone than in bad company and that a dignified loneliness is better than trying to keep a NO love at our side. With "NO love", we mean those couples who only feed on dissatisfactions and reign negative feelings that take over the emotional freedom of their members.
It is usual that at some point in our life we fall into these bad relationships. From the earliest childhood we learn that the ideal couple has to be "I can't live without you", "without you my life would be meaningless", "if I miss you I die", etc.
If we analyze these phrases, we realize that they unleash an escalation of pressures and demands on the other person and on the relationship itself that can undergo and undermine our internal self.
Therefore, when we come to face an insane relationship, we have to relearn something that we should have very clear: the only person we need to live is ourselves. Neither more nor less, this is quite simple. There is no love without self-love.
The love of your life is yourself. When are you going to understand?
Love does not plead, love does not pray, love does not implore, love does not cry excessively.
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